My dear friends, we love you so very much.
As you look at life and sort things into categories of good and bad, consider that even what you consider bad can be turned to good. The compost feeds your garden. The fertilizer helps make the roses sweet. Though hard times aren’t needed for growth, they can inspire you to create and calibrate more deliberately.
Often you don’t even know there are challenging vibrations active within you until life presents something to mirror them back to you. You may be giving more than you authentically want to give and not even realize it You may not have noticed that you were tired of one-sided relationships, being the one everyone runs to, or being interrupted when you sit down to do something you enjoy. Your kind and loving nature is beautiful, but you may have been pushing yourself to give more than you authentically felt inspired go give.
When someone leaves your life, asks for more than is reasonable, or becomes ungrateful, suddenly you realize that the overgiving doesn’t feel so good after all. Sending tidal waves of desire for more balanced relationships into the universe is what you do. You recalibrate, give only when truly a joy, and attract people who love you for who you are.
Likewise, suppose you didn’t realize a lot of little things were upsetting you (galling you or pissing you off) and suddenly you experience gallbladder or kidney issues. Now you know that you have been pinching yourself off from love and you can authentically process these feelings, stop stuffing them, and allow your body to heal as well. The seeming suddenness of the problem is not so sudden after all. Sickness takes a lot of little pinches to brew, whereas healing can happen more quickly as you truly open to love. Sit. Breathe, receive.
The subtle slide into pinching off the love is why taking a few minutes in silence regularly can be useful. You will voluntarily feel what you have stuffed. You will notice the emotions masked by activity. You will hear your heart and know its needs. What is revealed can be healed and before you inch toward an injury or drift into an undesirable situation, you can see, feel, and recalibrate your energy.
If you find yourself in a difficult situation, there’s no need to beat yourself up. You can instead use the moment as a launch for the future. When difficulties arise, the desire for solutions becomes acute. When you get sick, you feel a strong desire to be well. When you don’t have enough, your desire for abundance becomes a loud signal emanating form within.
Many of you have learned to settle for feeling less until a situation becomes intolerable. You do not have to settle. You do not have to tell yourself it is God’s will that you suffer. It is not. God is love. You simply have to acknowledge your desire and open to the love that is offered in the here and now. Sit. Breathe. Receive.
You can always accept the present moment and desire more. You can acknowledge the challenges today while looking forward to the solutions tomorrow. You can feel the pain today while anticipating the relief.
Dear ones, you were not put on earth to suffer. You were not meant to endure the behaviors of others while being at their mercy. You eagerly dover into this world of contrast with a desire to view the buffet of life, select what you wanted, and create more.
You are not at the mercy of the world, your bodies or your bank accounts. You are loved beyond what you can imagine. Your perspective will shift quickly and beautifully as you begin to allow this love into your life in even the smallest of ways.
God bless you! We love you so very much.
